24/09/2010

Having Confidence


Lack of Confidence

According to the encyclopaedia, “Confidence is generally described as a state of being certain either that a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective.

Self-confidence is having confidence in oneself. Arrogance or hubris in this comparison, is having unmerited confidence—believing something or someone is capable or correct when they are not. Overconfidence or presumptuousness is excessive belief, in someone or something, succeeding, without any regard for failure. Scientifically, a situation can only be judged after the aim has been achieved or not.

Confidence can be a self-fulfilling prophecy as those without it may fail or not try because they lack it and those with it may succeed because they have it rather than because of an innate ability.

Self-confidence does not necessarily imply 'self-belief' or a belief in one's ability to succeed. For instance, one may be inept at a particular sport or activity, but remain 'confident' in one's demeanour, simply because one does not place a great deal of emphasis on the outcome of the activity. The key element to self-confidence is, therefore, an acceptance of the myriad consequences of a particular situation, be they good or bad.

When one does not dwell on negative consequences, one can be more 'self-confident' because one is worrying far less about failure or (more accurately) the disapproval of others following potential failure. One is then more likely to focus on the actual situation, which means that enjoyment, and success in that situation is more probable.

If there is any 'self-belief' component it is simply a belief in one's ability to tolerate whatever outcome may arise; a certainty that one will cope irrespective of what happens. Belief in one's abilities to perform an activity comes through successful experience and may add to, or consolidate, a general sense of self-confidence.”

People may have confidence in other people or forces beyond their control. For instance, one might have confidence in the police to protect them, or might have confidence that their favourite football team will win a game. Faith and trust are synonyms of confidence when used in this context.

The issue with the Church today is the lack of confidence. The Church of God does not believe in the potential God has given.

We need to develop self-confidence in us if we want to fulfil our dreams. No one in this world can succeed in life if there is no belief in the ability to do well.

The word of God says: “ And, beloved, If our consciences do not accuse us, we have confidence before God, and we receive from Him whatever we ask, because we obey His orders and practice what is pleasing to Him” 1 John 3: 21 -22